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I had the most curious and interesting experience today
GunnerAFC 11 years ago Edited
Arsenal, England 47 1026

Thank you to those who have read and left kind words. I'd like to keep this to myself for personal reasons :(

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As the title states, I did indeed have the most curious and interesting experience today. While boarding the train home from my old University, I happened to sit across the aisle from a deaf girl and her two twin brothers (their Mother was seated in the seat immediately in front of me). I dont know their ages for sure, but I would guess the boys to be about 16 and the girl around 18 or 19. I think the four of them were involved in a school named the *College for the Deaf*, or something like that at least; I think the girl and her brothers were students, and their mother a teacher.

I was completely fascinated in watching the family communicate in sign. I tried as best I could to gather some figment of their conversation by assumptions and lip reading; both were endeavors that utterly failed. It soon came time to depart, and the train took off; a short while out of the station, an announcement was made that there was some kind of problem at the next station and thus we would have to go back and the service be cancelled. The other passengers were quite disgruntled at the interruption, but the deaf family were, naturally, unaware, and very confused as the train began reversing.

With my quick thinking I took initiative and used my open laptop to type out a message to the family about what was happening and showed it to them. As the girl read the message, I realized she was rather pretty. She had golden honey like highlights applied to the bottom half of her hair that cascaded down on to her shoulders. Her thankful smile, having been caught up to the latest goings-on, was even prettier. Once we had pulled back into our station of origin, seated passengers began standing and what not to depart the train as well as the already standing. However, another announcement was made stating that whilst a bus had been organised for any commuters who wished to take it, they driver would attempt to take a different route to bypass whatever the disturbance was.

Again, having not heard the message, the family continued to pack up and prepare to leave the train. My laptop started acting up so I began shaking it, when I got it working again I hastily typed out the updated communiquu00e9 and caught the attention of the girl, passing her the message. After she read the message, she looked at me and smiled. It was a privilege to view that pretty smile once again, and she signed something to me before informing her family and sitting back down. I knew no sign language, but I presumed it was *thank you*.

The train got going and the remainder of the ride was relatively uneventful. I sat watching the family have animated discussions in silence and, effectively, in private. When the train reached my station, I was surprised to see the family getting off the train with me. What a peculiar coincidence that they should happen to live in my town somewhere. Sadly no message of parting was exchanged between me and the girl, and I was left feeling incredibly frustrated at my lack of ability to talk to her. Some memory twinkled in the back of my mind; a DS poster (another forum I post at) served a deaf lady at his shop, only to be astounded by her perseverance and patience with the situation. I decided I would have to do something to avoid that necessity.

So now we get to the present time; 12:25am for anyone not also in my time zone. I have been studying for a number of hours, and I have the signs for entire English alphabet, as well as the signs for *hello*, *how are you?* and *thank you* memorized. It is incredibly time consuming, but it at least gives me a tiny amount of knowledge and ability to communicate with the girl, should I ever run into her again (or any other deaf person, should that occur). Actual sign language classes are much too expensive for me to afford at the present, so for now any further learning will be entirely internet based.

So yeah. Thought you guys might like to read about that. If odds are in my favor, I could very well end up meeting the pretty girl again and her thankful smile. If not... well, I will have gotten sign language out of it. Always handy to know.

As the title states, I did indeed have the most curious and interesting experience today. While boarding the train home from my old University, I happened to sit across the aisle from a deaf girl and her two twin brothers (their Mother was seated in the seat immediately in front of me). I dont know their ages for sure, but I would guess the boys to be about 16 and the girl around 18 or 19. I think the four of them were involved in a school named the *College for the Deaf*, or something like that at least; I think the girl and her brothers were students, and their mother a teacher.

I was completely fascinated in watching the family communicate in sign. I tried as best I could to gather some figment of their conversation by assumptions and lip reading; both were endeavors that utterly failed. It soon came time to depart, and the train took off; a short while out of the station, an announcement was made that there was some kind of problem at the next station and thus we would have to go back and the service be cancelled. The other passengers were quite disgruntled at the interruption, but the deaf family were, naturally, unaware, and very confused as the train began reversing.

With my quick thinking I took initiative and used my open laptop to type out a message to the family about what was happening and showed it to them. As the girl read the message, I realized she was rather pretty. She had golden honey like highlights applied to the bottom half of her hair that cascaded down on to her shoulders. Her thankful smile, having been caught up to the latest goings-on, was even prettier. Once we had pulled back into our station of origin, seated passengers began standing and what not to depart the train as well as the already standing. However, another announcement was made stating that whilst a bus had been organised for any commuters who wished to take it, they driver would attempt to take a different route to bypass whatever the disturbance was.

Again, having not heard the message, the family continued to pack up and prepare to leave the train. My laptop started acting up so I began shaking it, when I got it working again I hastily typed out the updated communiquu00e9 and caught the attention of the girl, passing her the message. After she read the message, she looked at me and smiled. It was a privilege to view that pretty smile once again, and she signed something to me before informing her family and sitting back down. I knew no sign language, but I presumed it was *thank you*.

The train got going and the remainder of the ride was relatively uneventful. I sat watching the family have animated discussions in silence and, effectively, in private. When the train reached my station, I was surprised to see the family getting off the train with me. What a peculiar coincidence that they should happen to live in my town somewhere. Sadly no message of parting was exchanged between me and the girl, and I was left feeling incredibly frustrated at my lack of ability to talk to her.

So now we get to the present time; 12:25am for anyone not also in my time zone. I have been studying for a number of hours, and I have the signs for entire English alphabet, as well as the signs for *hello*, *how are you?* and *thank you* memorized. It is incredibly time consuming, but it at least gives me a tiny amount of knowledge and ability to communicate with the girl, should I ever run into her again (or any other deaf person, should that occur). Actual sign language classes are much too expensive for me to afford at the present, so for now any further learning will be entirely internet based.

So yeah. Thought you guys might like to read about that. If odds are in my favor, I could very well end up meeting the pretty girl again and her thankful smile. If not... well, I will have gotten sign language out of it. Always handy to know.

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Footaholic 11 years ago
Arsenal, Egypt 178 2277

That is a brilliant story man.
I too would be frustrated but if you could somehow look up the name of the school she attended, you might be able to catch her some other time (for instance, at school dismissal).

As an aside, I remember finding it so fascinating that there are different sign languages. When I was a child I thought there was only 1 universal sign language.

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JuvE19 11 years ago
Juventus, Iraq 4 385

Well it was nice of you to keep them updated on the situation, and I think it's a nice thing that you're actually trying to learn sign language so you can communicate with her if you guys ever met again. Btw I hope that you meet again, and next time you should man up and talk to her ;)

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GunnerAFC 11 years ago
Arsenal, England 47 1026

@Foota

Thank you for the kind words and suggestion, Foota. I'll give it a try but I'm not expecting much. I hope our paths do cross again one day though.

Sign language is most certainly fascinating. I'll be heading over to the States soon and I assumed that British sign language and American sign language would be similar... but that's not the case. They are totally different. I've gotta try learning theirs now.

@Juve

It was the only right thing to do. The rest of the passengers on the train were gazing at their smartphones and what not. They certainly weren't gonna help the family. Mindless zombies I tell ya.

I'm really getting into sign. I just hope the sign that I taught myself is right, lol.

I hope I do meet her again, and hopefully I will have man upped by then! Haha, thanks for the advice.

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Footaholic 11 years ago
Arsenal, Egypt 178 2277

Well, I too would've presumed the sign for both forms of English would've been nearly identical (with the exception of the occasional colloquialism or slang).

If you're going to the States on holiday, then have fun. If you're moving, then good luck... hopefully it'll be someplace cool.

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GunnerAFC 11 years ago
Arsenal, England 47 1026

Holiday. California in October. I could never leave England permanently! Aha. Thanks though =]

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man_utd 11 years ago
Manchester United, South Korea 91 1444

Facebook. There's yer answers!
All jokes aside, wonderful story. Funny how a situation can change/have an impact on a person.

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Gennady 11 years ago
Manchester United 285 3976

Interesting story indeed dude! hope you'll run into that girl again! good luck, thanks for sharing.

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netsten 11 years ago
Chelsea, Belgium 44 992

Cool story bro. Good luck with the girl !

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mladen 11 years ago
Manchester United, Yugoslavia 253 2319

I didn't understand all text ,but I translate it on google,I was so curious ! wow... I m touched, Really. The way U talk about her,I can see she is pretty and have impact to your head and heart . Be careful and don't make quick moves . U know what I mean. I know U ll find her if U try hard and inform us of any news about that .

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ramaboy10 11 years ago
Mauritius 285 6463

Cool story :) Sign language is pretty amazing

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GunnerAFC 11 years ago
Arsenal, England 47 1026

@man_utd

Oh my... I cant believe we didn't even exchange names at least! =[

This whole situation has affected me greatly. I saw a chance to help another for no reason other than to help... I'm glad I did.

@Gennady

There's a nice probability of meeting her again if she's living in the same town as me... maybe I should try visiting places I don't usually go to.

@netsen

I appreciate it man. I hope her and I meet again some day...

@mladen

I'm glad you enjoyed my story, mladen. She really was pretty... I cant stop thinking about that wonderful smile of hers... sigh.

I do hope one day I can encounter this girl again, and possibly learn more about each other. I'll let you guys know if we do meet again in the future =]

@ramaboy

Thanks man. It really is. I hope my self taught sign is good... I can just imagine signing the wrong thing to someone and getting slapped across the face by them, lol.

@Everyone

Thank you for the words of support and encouragement. Really hoping I see her again, however slim the chances may be.

Cheers.

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ironfist2010 11 years ago
Real Madrid, Egypt 69 907

i know that damn frustrating feeling , it happened alot to me :D

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ironfist2010 11 years ago
Real Madrid, Egypt 69 907

btw , very interesting story with alot of suspense :) good luck mate

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GunnerAFC 11 years ago
Arsenal, England 47 1026

@Iron

Frustrating indeed. I hope good things come your way since it's happened a lot to you.

Thanks, Iron!

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Wolfie 11 years ago
Inter, Germany 94 1844

"Hit me baby one more time." lol

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Golden 11 years ago
35 693

Great story, Gunner. It's hard to describe the feeling you get after meeting/seeing a girl you "fall for", for instance when on a vacation, knowing you perhaps won't meet her again. Don't give up, and good luck!

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Heisinburg 11 years ago
Manchester United 67 1516

That was your fate, mate.. I'm sure there'll be the time when you two meet again. In Sydney, when you meet an attractive stranger and want to try and grab contact with her/him again, there is a section in the daily newspaper where you can submit an anonymous message that regards love interests. I don't know if you have that in your country, but best of luck!

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