“Sometimes the image of footballers is not always the best. When I started, I always promised myself to be honest, to stay myself, to prepare for difficulties and overcome them. I took these principles from my parents. My mother is a secretary at a school and my father works in a bank.“
They always supported me in a good way. When my parents came to games, they never shouted, they just kept calm. When I was 15, my father said: ‘You’re not going to be a professional player.’ My mother said: ‘Take it as a hobby, do your schoolwork and then we see what happens.’ I felt ‘OK, no pressure, I’ll just enjoy my football and if it doesn’t work I’ll study sports’. My parents always kept me grounded, kept me humble. That’s what made me feel not too important, not a shiny superstar.’’
For Mertesacker, “being Arsenal” began aged 10 when he visited an aunt who was living in England. She took him and one of his two brothers to a shop. “I grabbed the Arsenal shirt and my brother grabbed the Man United shirt. There was always a rivalry between ManU and Arsenal and always big rivalry between us as brothers. I actually have two shirts, the JVC one, home and away. There are pictures of me playing in the shirt, aged 10 or 12. I liked Tony Adams. But it was hard for me to chose one role model. It made me feel good just ‘being Arsenal’. I’ve always wanted to be in touch with Arsenal, have a little relationship between us. It was a big thing when Arsenal first called me. I said to myself: ‘I have to go. I have the shirt’.’’
Mertesacker signed in 2011 from Werder Bremen, forcing his brother to surrender his United affiliations. “He has switched completely now. From time to time, he gets on the bus at the Emirates and goes to away games. He doesn’t introduce himself as my brother. He just badly wants an adventure. He likes the fan culture, the passion. He’s made some friends on buses. He just wants to be an away fan and support Arsenal.’
’It cannot have been easy early on. Mertesacker struggled, making errors, caught out by quick strikers. “As a defender, it’s about seeing situations as early as possible, especially in England where the speed is really high, more than in Germany. I had a lot of difficulties to start with. I kept mistakes with me all the next day. I always ask myself: ‘what happened?’ But in every single second the Boss Arsène Wenger supported me when I suffered or made a few mistakes. He said: ‘you have to cope quickly and respond to the criticism’. He trusted me.’’
So, I came across this interview by Per Mertesacker and thought it was great. Some interesting and honest stuff in there.
Source: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/football/teams/arsenal/10501748/Per-Mertesacker-says-I-am-proud-to-be-part-of-the-Arsenal-tradition-ahead-of-Evertons-visit-to-Emirates-Stadium.html
For Per Mertesacker, “being Arsenal” is not simply about the mature, frequently elegant football they are playing this season. For the tall, intelligent centre-half, “being Arsenal” is also about spending a day researching the plight of refugees, coaching those who felt the world had abandoned them and then donating a day’s wages to charity. “Being Arsenal makes me proud,’’ said Mertesacker.
He had read up on the individual stories of the 20 torture survivors that he and Mesut Özil coached on Monday afternoon on the Cruyff Court, Islington, north London. Mertesacker learned how they had fled their home-lands across the world after being given electric shocks, been struck with rifle butts and kept in isolation, trying to break their will.
He listened as they talked of how their confidence was being rebuilt by these weekly sessions organized by the Arsenal Foundation and Freedom from Torture, a medical foundation treating 1,200 refugees in the UK. “It’s really hard to imagine what happened to them,’’ said Mertesacker. “They just want to forget. You could see in their bright eyes their joy of playing football together. As professional footballers we have a responsibility. We have the power, the platform and the money to really help people.
“Being Arsenal makes me proud not only as a footballer on the pitch but also part of this Foundation work. Arsenal stands for tradition. I feel the class of the people here at Arsenal, good people. Arsenal have a history of doing great things for the community. Arsenal have never forgotten their roots. I stand for that as well.’’
The 29-year-old has his own foundation, raising funds for charitable projects after the death of his former Hannover 96 team-mate Robert Enke, who stepped in front of a train. “That was absolutely horrible. I couldn’t believe what happened. Robert and I were good friends. Time goes by but…well, it’s just good to think about Robert from time to time, remembering the great times we had together. I try to put something back.